Control is the inability to focus our thoughts on our present reality. Control is a mindset, to think we can have control over life is absurd. Control is something that many people seek, whether they realize it or not. We feel that by having control, we in fact shape our reality. When in all reality, the only thing we can have control over is our own thoughts. We can control our own thoughts and no one can change that, no one can judge our thoughts but ourselves; so why are we so hard on ourselves? Why do we seek something in which we can never possess?